heteroséxual, and have
never had séx. For 12 years,
my best friend has been a
guy, but I've never felt any
desire to take things
further. I've never dated
anyone because I am very
shy. My mother seems unable to understand why we
are not dating or to accept that a man and a woman can
simply be friends. She has told me to either date him
or stop being friends with him, because she thinks
having him around convinces people that I'm taken.
After speaking to him about it, he confessed that he
never made any kind of move because I never showed
any interest. He knows I want to one day marry and
have kids and he doesn't want any of that. I feel like an
ass for always assuming he just wasn't interested in
me but it doesn't make thinking about anything séxual
any easier.
To stop my mother from talking about him, I told her
about a friend who lives across the country with whom
I became intimate last time he was here, but didn't
have séx with. He is coming here for a holiday in two
weeks and my mother is putting pressure on me to stop
being afraid and have séx with him. I'm not ashamed of
being 28 and a vírgin, but I'm getting the impression
my mum is. Even if I do have séx, I'm not comfortable
telling my mother it happened, but I don't want her
constantly questioning me.
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